Sunday, January 27, 2008

Where You Are From Will Always Be An Integral Part Of Your Life

Being from a specific city, town, or neighborhood is one of the biggest factors in molding one’s life. When we are born alls we know is that we must eat and sleep in order to live. Later on in life, you start to realize more about your life, including your family and your surroundings. Your family and surroundings are molded from essentially the same thing; your city, town or neighborhood, so it is hard not to follow the same path as others in your geographical location. Growing up you look up to others around you and you think that the way you live is the way everybody in the world lives, or at least should live. This mentality comes from everybody around you being from generally from the same walk of life and doing the mostly the same things. Now your outlook is the same as your peers, both older and younger, because this way of life is all you know. Whether you are living in the East side of Beverly Hills or the West side of Chicago you think that the way you live is the right way and you take pride in your city, town, or neighborhood.Throughout your life you will always revert back to where you’re from, whether it is comparing with a friend or co-worker how you were raised or what you’re parents did for a living. As most grow up they stay in the same area to be around family, friends and familiar surroundings. Some venture out and see what life is like outside of their cities or towns. Although these people left their hometowns to go elsewhere, they will always have a little bit of wherever they are from inside of them. There is a popular saying that goes; you can take the boy out of Brooklyn but you can’t take Brooklyn out of the boy! This is a great saying and can be used for any city, town or neighborhood around the world. Going back to the “My dad can beat up your dad” mindset, we as people can always find something great about our hometown, whether it is a hard work ethic or great ocean views, our hometown is usually one up on others. This pride in our hometowns can carry over into our personal and business relationships in new cities or towns that we venture to throughout life. We gravitate towards people from similar backgrounds as us and find a common bond if we believe they are like us. Finding people like you and sticking with them often leads to the generalization that the rich get richer and the poor get poorer, because if you come from a rich town, you will most likely always be around wealthy people. On the other hand growing up in an inner city around underprivileged people will lead most to staying on the same track as their families and peers, mainly because it is all they know. This can pose a problem in society for some and can lead to very happy lives for others. There are always people out there that want more and go get it but there are some that have so much love around them that material objects don’t mean anything to them.There are now websites scattered around the web that let people express themselves and their love for their hometowns no matter where they are or what they’re like. This new way of showing your love for your hometown lets people show off their roots while traveling to other parts of the world or country, away at college, or simply around town!
By Kevin James [ 03/10/2007 ][ viewed 23 times ]

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